friend

Good friends remain true and reliable no matter what.

Unfortunately, the same cannot be said of a fair-weather friend. A “friend” like that is only friendly when things are going well. The moment we get into trouble or are in need of help, fair-weather friends vanish.

“If I lost my job and had no money, I wonder if I’d still have my friends.”

i find it fascinating. if i cannot use somebody when the time comes, he’s not a true friend?

to be honest, all i want is fair-weather friend. i don’t ever want you to help me, never. if you offer to help, great, surely will i appreciate it. in reverse circumstance, if you want my help, i am happy to be there for you. and don’t feel like you need to pay back. personally, just be a fair-weather friend to me. have a drink, grab a bite, enjoy a show, share a road trip, and anything non-sexual non-emotional.

is it too much to ask? or am i sounding too good on paper? no, because i hate helping people out after the second times. if you need the same help more than twice, i have to whine it in your face. seriously, put your shit together man!

plus often, i find myself being replaced by someone who gives more emotional supports. i guess cold blooded is not popular in human being.

still, i do need fair-weather friends to catch movies and shows. and don’t go with your true friends please! lol

诉求

我以为我要的很少很简单
但事实上这几年却未曾成功过
一起看看电影 搭车看场演出 旅游分担房费 什么活动凑个人数
不感兴趣的不强求 不会因为“作为朋友” 强迫卖个人情
喝酒吃饭 闲聊扯淡 却不会夜夜倾谈心声 不会不见面也熟络人情网络地对话
简单说就是酒肉朋友
是否人们都在避免充当酒肉朋友 而单一地要求着真友
我不知道
我只知道我无法充当倾吐真心的朋友
我只知道我不需要一个倾听我心的朋友
我只知道我能够给于燃眉的帮助但不是日日地照顾
我只知道我不会找你帮忙但你不会认为我排斥你针对你冷落你
结果是
这样的朋友不存在 存在的是比你更近人情的那个人替代你的位置
直到我遇到另一个和我有相同诉求的人的那天
我想 我是无法结交新朋友了